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Friday, February 21, 2014

Winning is not a result, Winning is a philosophy.

I believe I am a right-brained person. No, I am not claiming I am the next Pablo Picasso or the Modern Shakespeare, but yes I am a writer. I have this dominant creative side and a less dominant logical side that makes me feel that winning is not creative, winning is too logical and mainstream, winning is overrated. Now, that goes for anyone who believes winning is largely claiming the first position. 

If you have a more profound definition of winning, than just merely reaching the top slot, you are in for a wise conversation about Winning.

I have my own beliefs about winning which I want to achieve as I grow old.

I am 24 years old, sometimes I have this conversation with my best friend about the stupid things I did when I was 16 or 17. I regret some personal or academic decisions I made at that age. Sometimes even worse, I desire to go back in time and change the set of events that happened. I hate myself when I don't appreciate my present, but then I recollect the last time somebody appreciated my work, how they gave a couple of precious hours of their lives thinking about what I wrote, it is that moment of appraisal when I feel that I won something. Respect, may be.


















When I didn't care whether I should wear this White shirt or the Grey shirt for my paper presentation in the College Auditorium and I was more worried about the points I could make in that presentation, I felt I won. I won some wisdom as I grew old because when I was a teenager, the color of the shirt did matter. 

When I finish singing my favorite song in the shower or when I dance within the closed doors of my living room without being interrupted, I win. I win the pleasure of being at my craziest Avatar.

When I beat my personal best score in the maths test, yet not making the Top 10 in the class. I win comfort. The comfort of knowing the improvement I made without wasting my time on being jealous for the guy who topped, because for me the race has only one competitor and that's me.

So, I will win when I will be at a Bar watching a game of cricket with my best friends at 60. I will win when the greatest link to my past would be my siblings and not some photo album on Facebook. I will win when I will be 80 years old and have my children and grandchildren around me without anything to offer but time. 

When I will have a thousand stories to narrate to my grandchildren about my parents because I will win respect for the fact that I had time for my parents and the urge to know and understand them.

I wrote this article on winning as I desire to meet the greatest winners of the society we live in at the India Today Conclave 2014

IndiBlogger is providing another golden opportunity to the Indian Bloggers to feel good about Blogging.

20 comments:

  1. Lovely aspect of looking at winning. I liked how you explained what winning means to you. Good luck with the contest.

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  2. Very Inspiring Post! :)
    All the best for the contest!

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  3. FANTABULOUS!JUST SUPER BRO!!I WE OWE U 4 THIS ARTICLE ::P !!

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    1. the pleasure is all mine brother.. but please let me know who you are... although you can be anonymous while abusing me, I won't mind :p

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    2. hahahaa... your comment is funny.

      FYI - i am not the anonymous here!

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  4. Liked reading about your thoughts on winning, best of luck for the contest.

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  5. I love your idea of winning! This was an awesome post. Good luck on the contest.

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    1. Thank you Kathy, it is straight from the heart, that is all I can say :)

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  6. Lovely and inspiring thoughts!! All the best for the contest, Amrit :)

    PS : You must remove the word verification from your comment section!! :)

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    1. thank you shilpa, glad you like it..
      Word Verification..? Really ? but it is switched off, chalo I will work on it, thanks for telling me :)

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  7. Very well written Amritt...I echo it as much. All the best!
    word verification really? :(

    www.numerounity.com

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    1. thanks Ekta, good to have you here, glad you like it :)

      Don't know what's wrong with this word verification thing, chalo I will work on it asap :) thanks for letting me know :)

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  8. This post is so you.. :) All the best!

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    1. Thank you Ms. Kannan, I am glad you like it :)

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  9. well Amrit, what i gathered is winning is all about the little joys to you... so i guess... you have already won this won!

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    1. Yes Winning is actually very overrated substance, there is a pleasure in participation, I seek that.. :)

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